I'm glad this thread was made. At one point I was feeling like this. I didn't know if my spell was working and I didn't know how my lover was reacting to it. Now that I've been seeing signs and things I know my spell is working and I tell myself all the time that I may can't see my spell working but I can feel it working because of all my positive energy. I have faith that my spell is working and I know in the end I will be very happy with my lover.