Being positive and hoping for the best always helps. I know once my love spell is cast that i'll see improvements, my ex-boyfriend already misses me without the spell, so maybe it's just the thing that'll push him to mend things. Us who are in love with somebody we lost should fight to win that love back, because it's worth it. I know in my heart that I have the willpower to get him back. If you find that strength and keep it you'll see improvements in your situations both with the spell and without. I wish you all the light and positivity you can get.
mystery girl,
I'm in the same boat as you are. When you love someone that much it's very hard to let them go. As long as you fight you'll get your ex-boyfriend back! My love is the most tender people i've ever met, and i know we're soulmates because of how similar we are emotionally. he's scared of love, I was too, but we reacted differently. I embraced it and trusted him, and he walked away and took away his trust in me. I believe one of Ashra's spells can at least help. I'm waiting for my magical moment myself. Be patient, kind, and keep your heart open.